When Your Daughter Growing Up…
Posted by JessicaJun 24
The sharing between mother and her daughter as human with same gender is one of the first step to be the good parent. Both you and your daughter can express feeling and this will help you to stay closer with your daughter. Your daughter will get some experience directly form their mom to face various matter like how to handle social clicks, changing other people empathy, and many more.
This process is not easy and if you can pass this process smoothly, at least until they are adult then you are a success parent. During the first years, when little girls establishing their own identity according to their gender (generally, when they are 4-6 years old).
Your daughter will watch all of your movements. Therefore, she can present as if mirror reflection with her mother. However, the similar things will also lead some problems.
Generally, some problems will start to appear if identification process is too strong. It will tempt you have assumption that you know everything about your daughter, include know exactly what your daughter feeling.
The consequence is you will become as mother who does not present completely as good listener with full attention again. This will be one of obstruction for you to really understand your daughter.
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